Telling the Parents
Obviously, after blogging about this baby on the internet we couldn't wait long to tell our parents.
Kelly called her mother the next day. Kelly's mom probably won't remember hearing the news, so we can pretty much skip her part of the story.
Over the weekend we told my parents in person. Kelly didn't want me to call them first. So, when my dad came by the house I told him that we now have a deadline for house projects and we showed him the ultrasound. Later on, I jokingly asked my dad if he remembered how many electrical outlets we've installed in this house. We agreed that I might want to buy outlet plugs in bulk at Sam's Club.
I used the housework deadline to break the ice with my mom, too. I think she's really excited to be a grandma. That's somewhat of a shock, because every other event in my life seems to have required a lecture. I think that she's really been starting to wonder if any of her three boys was going to start a family.
As we've been telling people, Kelly has been taking all the responses very personally. I think that people just don't know what to say when you spring big news on them. We haven't had any time to prepare ourselves, much less everyone else for this! I know that we're all excited, though. That's what's important.
The waiting is the hardest part, right? I'm determined to make these next few months fly by, so we can get on with the good stuff. There's no sense in getting all worked up. We will make mistakes, but we'll be ready. I can already see that the hardest part is going to be keeping all the baby names I don't like off the list. :)

4 Comments:
Everyone takes this type of "unexpected" news differently.
In the end, if they don't support you 100%, they're not worth having in your lives!
When my best friend found out she was pregnant, she freaked out, and it was a very very long first month. But then, she got excited, she read through all the books, she went to the doc, heard the baby's heartbeat and now, in just three months, she'll be the proud mama of a little baby girl.
You guys will do great. Tell anyone who says otherwise they can SHOVE IT. lol.
Due to crazy hormonal changes during pregnancy, a lot of things can make you emotional or cry. This goes for the mother-to-be also.:-)
If it makes you feel better, my hubby and I could never agree on baby names til we were at the hospital, almost going home. The baby will get a name, eventually, hopefully, not from the last science-fiction book you read. It takes time for some family members to get excited,they may be thinking of all the responsibilities of parenting---it IS hard work, but very rewarding.
Enjoy the time,wait til you feel the baby kick for the first time.
Alicia is a nice name. :)
I may steal it.
Just keep in mind that you'll have to tell everyone how to spell it.
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